Harp Seal (Phoca groenlandicus)

coconut bun with a face

get a job


you can be non-binary and still want to be referred to as he or she

you can be non-binary and still want to be someone’s girlfriend/boyfriend

you can be non-binary and be in a straight-passing relationship

you can be non-binary and want to refer to yourself with gendered language

there is no right way to be non-binary

your identity is perfect the way it is

don’t ever feel like you’re ~not queer enough~ because just by existing you are queer enough. 


Relationship level 1: awkward flirting

Relationship level 2: getting naked

Relationship level 3: “what type of bender would i be in avatar”



It takes so little time to train your brain to just say “they” when you refer to strangers or anyone whose pronouns you’re not sure of…very minimal effort for most ppl..maybe realize not everything is about you and try it out

it changes the way u think about strangers/gender too. dont assume anything

Coming Out Simulator 2014 - a half-true game about half-truths

Coming Out Simulator is exactly what it says it is. It’s a free-to-play conversation simulator based on/inspired by the personal story of coming out of its creator, Nicky Case.

There’s no easy answer in Coming Out Simulator, no optimal ending to be achieved if you collect the requisite amount of points. Case based the game off a pivotal moment in his own life as a teenager. And just like in real life, the moment of “coming out” in this game is traumatic no matter which way the player chooses to approach it.

Ultimately, it’s liberating as well. But that’s not what the brunt of the experience playing Coming Out Simulator is actually like. […] There’s power in exploring a fantasy like the one in Mass Effect 3, but there’s also power in being reminded that “coming out” the way one does in that game is a fantasy, and a pretty far-fetched one for many people who faced far more difficult challenges when they actually came out.

Coming Out Simulator is a game about that second experience. It’s a painful one. But it’s also a necessary one, that I think more people who’ve never had to struggle with their own sexual identity should see for themselves. 


If milkshakes bring boys to the yard, what brings girls? Smoothies? What brings non-binary cuties? Frappucinos? I need to know.

Guys!!! Recently there’s been a lot of discussion about LGBT issues in our mainstream media following the unshelving of childrens’ titles featuring alternative families and a protest against our version of Pride Day called Pink Dot, among other things.

These have been useful opportunities for promoting discussion about LGBTQ issues in Singapore, but so far public awareness of transgender people is dismal at best! I don’t personally know the creators of this project, but if you guys could help them to get this going it would be a lovely aid to helping us raise awareness about trans* issues while LGBTQ topics are still in the public eye! Please help to signal boost!!

vashnir replied to your post: i kind of really miss rp forums

A friend of mine is starting up an rp forum centered around 18th century sea-faring w/ vampire port authorities and werewolf navy and changeling pirates. We’re all 21+ adults playing, but I’m still afraid of what is going to happen.

homan that sounds like its going to be a lot of fun!!! i wish you guys the best with your forum! wow im just remembering all the forum drama i used to witness now ;//m//;

i would try to join an rp forum but i’m just too busy and part of me feels like they’re better left to the past??? idk

thejunglemeinong replied to your post: i kind of really miss rp forums

same, i haven’t really rp’d since middle school bc all my fav forums sorta died

yeah everyone’s all grown up now the age of rp forums has passed umu


explaining anxiety is the fucking worst because you feel like an idiot for being bothered by the things that bother you but it’s such an intense fear right at your core so you have to go through all of these other levels of yourself to try and get someone else to understand it